Sunday, June 30, 2013

#181/365--Getting Ready

On Friday, my restoration company (Mooring) laid my carpet...



...mom and I spent the day...
today
...cleaning...
in order
to prepare
for
the furniture
that is being
...delivered...
tomorrow
...finally got that tree down...
(there were tears)
...and also...
...finally decided to deal with the situation...
...and tossed those boxes...
...in the dumpster...
(still swallowing tears)

We found mold growing
in the refrigerator

(even though we distinctly remember leaving the doors open, and also re-opening them when we found them closed)

...so...
Mom
attempted to clean
...but we decided...
...a new fridge...
...is gonna be...
needed.

We spent about 
...five...
hours
...cleaning...
floors
window sills
bathrooms
and
carpet
...and when we left...
...the house...
...was...
"furniture-ready"

#180/365--A Boy and his Dog.....or....Frog.....?





Friday, June 28, 2013

#179/365--Crazy Dreams

I haven't been
...sleeping well...
lately.
In fact,
I've been
...waking...
all throughout
...the night...
having
...crazy dreams...
Last night
the gist of my dream
was that
I was in college
but I forgot
when and where
my classes were.
It was a stressful dream

...(It was worse than it sounds)...

I like to
...analyze...
my dreams
...it used to be...
...something my dad and I...
...would talk about...
Here's what I found...
...yeah...
it fits.
So have my other strange dreams.
But we won't
address those dreams
...here...

Also,
another
...crazy...
recurring
...dream...
I have had
...that I might...
actually pursue
...pinch me...

#178/365--Hot Ball



Wednesday, June 26, 2013

#177/365--Two Toned

After the fire, the three town homes in the middle suffered the most damage.  The problem was, all of those people had "condo" insurance. This is different from regular homeowner's insurance because in a townhome complex, normally there is an HOA that is responsible for the exterior of the homes in order that the homes remain uniform. 

In this instance, however, being that it has been a "new" development for a few years, there isn't an "existing" HOA.  We were told upon closing that after the developer had built up to a certain percentage (I believe 75%) that the HOA would then take effect.  Unfortunately, for my neighbors, that meant they did not have coverage for the exterior of their homes.  I was fortunate enough to have an insurance company (Nationwide) that asked me about HOA and informed me that I should have homeowner's insurance, "just to be safe." 

My neighbors finally settled with the developer, who paid them a set amount and bought back the condos in the middle, to rebuild...himself.  I've had several headaches along the way with this gentleman.  (Refer to the dumpster and the hole in my attic)  This brings me to my newest battle....

...the developer painted the front of my condo and not the side or back--it is darker, more brown-toned, as opposed to my lighter shade.  I confronted him about it this morning and he has no intention of painting it unless I pay him.  Several times he forcefully stated to me, "I AM the HOA!"  I repeatedly tried to get him to understand that I don't pay HOA dues but that if, in fact there IS an HOA, it is responsible for the exterior of the home and that means the side and back.  He repeated to me that he "IS the HOA!" and that he took care of the exterior to the extent that he "saw fit." I asked if I could see the HOA documents.  He continued to talk over me telling me things he could cite me for, including the paint job, my fence that needs repairs, and the shingles that don't match (oh...did I mention he is the one who did the shingles in the first place?). 

 It ended poorly.  

I am at a loss.  Literally.  This fire/smoke damage has done me in.  My home will depreciate in value.  And also.  In the long run, it will be cheaper for me to pay to get my house painted than to hire a lawyer to bring this guy to justice.  So I am out of pocket more money that I don't have.  I've had a discouraging day.  I am trying to keep my faith and remember that God is in control.  Sometimes it's a struggle.  

And I realize.  
It is just paint, after all. 

Tuesday, June 25, 2013

#176/365--Merry Halfway to Christmas, or Happy 6-Month-i-versary


(left: 12/25/2012; right: 06/25/2013)

We are closer, friends.
Here are some more pics
of our progress
...over the past month...








...by next month...
...we should be moved back in...

Monday, June 24, 2013

#175/365--Summer Math

...given that...
I own
...at least...
-- 4 --
...of these...
(one possibly, currently in the dryer)
...and there are...
-- 7 --
...days in a week...
...and...
-- 8 or 9--
...pics on FB...
-- containing said garment --

Considering that
-- it's summer --
...what are the odds...
...that...
you might see me wearing this shirt
...on occasion...
...do you think?

...black tanks and sunglasses...
-- my trademark --

Sunday, June 23, 2013

#174/365--Pinterest Cooking

...tried another recipe I found on...
...Pinterest...
...its meatballs...
...and cheese sticks...
...wrapped inside...
...Pilsbury biscuits...
--dipped--
...in marinara sauce...
Big Hit


Saturday, June 22, 2013

#173/365--Summer Saturday

I had a date with myself this evening.
...it was very spontaneous...
...I took myself to...
...and I treated myself to...
...and I bought myself (and kids)...
...and I shared this view with myself...
...it was...
...super...
 
 


#172/365--The Summer of...

...movies...


...and also firsts...
...my driving teen...
...driving solo...
 


Thursday, June 20, 2013

#171/365--Growing too Fast, Part 2

The college event...
 
...that Lauren and I attended...
...included speakers from the CIA,
who were there to talk about
possible future job opportunities
and internship possibilities. 
It was very interesting.
 
We also heard from
...the founder of...
...The National Society of High School Scholars...
...Claes Nobel...
 
...grand nephew to Alfred Nobel...
...who established the Nobel prizes.
 
Lauren had her first
...opportunity...
to talk to
colleges
...and gather brochures...
...and other info...

...this is all happening...
...waaaaaay...
...too excruciatingly fast...
---for me---
 
I
...needed a side trip...
...from the trip...

...so we stopped...
...to see...
...something else overwhelming...
...on our way home...

#170/365--Growing too Fast, Part 1

Today, my baby got her Driver's License.
Then, we took a mother-daughter trip
...to Houston...
 
...to attend a college event...
hosted by
National Society of High School Scholars

Saturday, June 15, 2013

#166/365--Diagnosis

...continuation from post #164 & #165...
...so...
the OTC gas meds
that my PCP
"prescribed"
didn't work...

--and--

the muscle relaxer, heating pad, and essential oils
that
I
"prescribed"
didn't work...

I awoke
this morning
after being awake
yet again
most of the night
with
...severe...
...sharp...
...stabbing...
pain
in my lower right abdomen
I decided to go to the ER.
...where they...
...took blood...
and other stuff
...and...
did an
...ultrasound...

...final outcome...
a diagnosis
that 
is
not
gas
but
"Mesenteric Adenitis"
...which, when googled...
...is explained as...
...so....
to my PCP
who ordered
me to take
"simethicone"
...thanks...
...for your deep concern...
I realize that
(Thank God)
this isn't anything serious
but
I was in pain
not just
GAS PAIN.
And I so much appreciate you
staying on top of it 
and following thru
to an actual diagnosis.

No, really.
Thanks for blowing me off.
The ER doctor
was much more concerned.
He actually got more tests run
because he could tell that I was
...in fact...
in a lot of pain.

And...the ER doctor
...explained...
what was going on
inside of me.
...and what I should expect...
...over the next few days...
He didn't just stop 
at a 
"perfectly healthy"
CT scan.
Thank you, ER guy.
Sincerely.

#165/365--Not

...continuation of post #164...
...so...
the gas meds
did not work.
I spent all of Friday
in and out
of severe pain

(all the while, 
being professionally developed
 in the area 
of teaching Language Arts)

...and...
since my
CT
showed
a perfectly healthy me
I figured
that maybe I
pulled a muscle
when we were at 
6 flags 
...on Wednesday...
So,
I took a muscle relaxer
(prescription strength, for spasms)
...added a little essential oils...

...and slept with a heating pad...
...to be continued...

#164/365--FlabberGASted

...Wednesday...
...midnight...
I began
having severe pain
in
my lower right
abdomen.

The pain came and went.  When it was present, it was severe.  I could not move.  All I could do was grit my teeth and breathe slowly.  I googled a bunch of different things, trying to diagnose myself.  Probably something one should never do.  Finally, morning came and I was able to text some friends for their opinions.  The general consensus was that I needed to be, at the very least, seen by a doctor.  So, I went in.

After some very basic tests,
I was sent to
an imaging facility
where I had to drink
...something...
...and then...
have a 
CT
done
with contrast
which
ended up
showing
how very healthy
my insides are

(besides a very normal kidney stone...in the left kidney...which I am quite used to)

My doctor said 
she wanted me
to try some OTC
meds for
...gas...
GAS??? 
ARE YOU KIDDING ME??
That's my diagnosis
after my 500$ copay/deductible??
I think I know gas...
...but...
...I'll try whatever...
...see future posts...

Wednesday, June 12, 2013